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The little things mean everything.
A Book by Eric Brooker · 2023

You
Are
Enough.

A book about worthiness as the most overlooked leadership skill in the room — and the practice that turns it into performance, retention, and the kind of culture nobody is currently quitting.

Available nowHardcover · Paperback · Kindle
Endorsed byMarshall Goldsmith · Andy Andrews · Liz Wiseman
You Are Enough book cover
Eric Brooker · You Are Enough
— Praise

Consider this Eric's prescription for the rest of your life.

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Andy Andrews NYT Best-Selling Author · The Traveler's Gift · The Noticer
Inside the book

Twelve chapters.
One unwinding.

Each chapter takes a piece of the lie that you have to earn your way into worthiness and slowly, patiently, takes it apart. Read it cover to cover, or open to the chapter your team needs this quarter.

Ch. 01

The Lie of Earning Your Way In

Where worthiness gets confused with performance — and the cost of getting it backwards.

Ch. 02

The Voice in the Front Row

Whose opinion is currently running your decisions. And whose isn't, but should be.

Ch. 03

Relationship Capital

The only asset on the balance sheet that appreciates in a downturn. Deposits, withdrawals, compounding.

Ch. 04

The Math of Trust

Trust is a number. Here is how to calculate yours, and what to do when it dips below zero.

Ch. 05

The Little Things

The micro-behaviors that quietly build — or quietly burn — a culture. The ledger your team is already keeping.

Ch. 06

The First Five Minutes

Why the opening of every meeting is the most underused leadership real estate in corporate America.

Ch. 07

The Cost of Pretending

What a high-performance mask costs over a career. Specifically. In years and dollars and people.

Ch. 08

Forgiveness as a Leadership Skill

The most underrated practice in leadership. The one I am still, after twenty years, learning.

Ch. 09

Conversations You're Avoiding

A practical inventory. A script. And the permission to start with the easy one.

Ch. 10

The Long Goodbye

What happens to a team when the highest performer leaves. And what to do six months before they go.

Ch. 11

Counsel, Not Coaching

The difference between being managed, being coached, and being counseled. Why your best people want the third.

Ch. 12

The Inevitable

Where the work ends up if you stay with it long enough. The kind of culture nobody is currently quitting.

Excerpt · Chapter 05

The Little Things.

From page 84 · Hardcover EditionRead time · 3 min

There is a moment, in almost every team I have ever worked with, where the leader pulls me aside and says, in some version of the same sentence, "I just don't understand why she's leaving — she had everything here." And I always say the same thing back, which is: I'll bet she didn't think she did.

What she had, in the leader's mind, was a clear path to promotion, a fair salary, a flexible schedule, and a stable team. What she had, in her own mind, was the seventh time in two years that the credit for her work got rerouted through someone else's mouth.

The leader and the employee, in this scenario, are not having an argument about reality. They are having an argument about which little things count. And the leader is, quietly and confidently, losing — because they have built their picture of the relationship out of the big things, and the employee has built theirs out of the little ones.

This is not a generational thing. This is not a "millennials want praise" thing. This is the oldest pattern in leadership, and it has been described in every memoir of every executive I have ever respected. The big things get the budget. The little things get the loyalty.

If you are reading this and your first instinct is to say "but the little things are exhausting," I want you to know two things. First, you are not wrong. Second, you are doing them anyway — you are just doing them in the wrong direction, and you are tired because you are paying interest on a loan you didn't realize you took out.

The little things don't mean a lot. The little things are a lot. The whole job, on the days when nobody is watching, is the little things. The keynote speakers never tell you this because it doesn't sell tickets. The leadership books rarely tell you this because the chapter is hard to fill out. But every senior leader I have ever interviewed for my podcast — every single one — has told me some version of the same sentence: "I wish I had paid attention to the small stuff sooner."

Author endorsements

What the
writers say.

Endorsements from New York Times bestselling authors, Thinkers50 honorees, and leadership voices who know the territory.

Author Endorsement
"Prepare to be moved and inspired as you dive into this extraordinary exploration of self-acceptance and true transformation."

You Are Enough embarks readers on a profound journey of self-discovery and healing. Through his own experiences and the stories of remarkable individuals, Eric beautifully illustrates the universal struggles of not feeling like we are enough. With practical tools and heartfelt insights, this book will touch your heart, resonate with your own challenges, and empower you to embrace your worthiness.

Dr. Marshall GoldsmithThinkers50 #1 Executive Coach · NYT bestselling author of The Earned Life, Triggers, What Got You Here Won't Get You There
Author Endorsement
"Consider this my prescription for the rest of your life."

Have you ever doubted your abilities? How about your wisdom? Have you ever doubted your influence or your discernment or your capacity to love or to be loved? If any of these questions resonate with you, Eric Brooker's release needs to be in your shopping cart within the hour.

Andy AndrewsNYT bestselling author of The Traveler's Gift · CEO, WisdomHarbour.com
Author Endorsement
"When our confidence comes from our inherent value, we tend to do our best work and make our greatest impact."

This book is a welcome departure from the relentless pursuit of efficiency and achievement. Brooker's story takes the reader into a better world of sufficiency and shared humanity and offers a poignant reminder that we don't need to measure up to be enough, we simply are.

Liz WisemanNYT bestselling author of Multipliers and Impact Players
Author Endorsement
"Each page feels like a good friend putting his arm around you."

Eric writes from a place of profound vulnerability, clarity of what matters most and passionate concern for his readers. Read this book today. You'll embrace not only your worthiness, but your ability to ensure your future is even better than your past.

John O'Leary#1 National bestselling author of On Fire and In Awe
Author Endorsement
"An authentic, emotional, and heartfelt journey of personal growth that will leave you forever changed."

It will empower you to confront your struggles with courage, and inspire you to accept, love, and nurture the relationship you have with the most important person in your life — yourself.

Waldo WaldmanLeadership coach · NYT bestselling author of Never Fly Solo
Author Endorsement
"A game-changer."

You Are Enough is an essential read for anyone who has ever questioned their worth or felt consumed by self-doubt. A needed reminder that our worth is not defined by external circumstances, accolades, or achievements — but by who we are at our core — and that we are always enough.

Alan Stein Jr.Author of Raise Your Game
Reader reviews

What the
readers say.

From verified reader reviews on Amazon and across the web. Real people. Real takeaways.

Verified Reader
"I rarely pick up a book that leaves me in tears."

From the very first chapter, I was hooked, and all I could think of was how much I wished I could tell my brother he was enough while he was alive. Eric pours his heart out in this book and shares many relatable topics we all have faced in some form as children, parents, and adults. I highly recommend this book to anyone struggling with the idea that they are not worthy or want to overcome self-doubt. This is a book you will want to revisit time and time again.

Timothy RamosVerified reader review
Verified Reader
"I hadn't read a book cover to cover in years. This one got me teared up almost instantly."

I just never made the time to sit down and read a book for quite some time. Then I came across this book and the title interested me. I'm an emotional guy and this book got me teared up almost instantly cause of the stories I read and how relative they were to some of the things I've been going through in my personal and professional life.

Anthony SaittaVerified reader review
Verified Reader
"I read the book non-stop in one sitting."

I felt a strong emotion with the humanity displayed in the pages. Also a great amount of meaningful takeaways that I've already co-opted into my daily life. If you have kids, read this book. If you struggle with identifying your self worth, read this book. If you want to give yourself some real contemplative ideas about how to treat one another, read this book.

Lucas M.Verified reader review
Verified Reader
"It ignited a much-needed process of healing within me."

The book's powerful message on personal loss resonated deeply with me. It helped me understand that the pain we experience in relationships isn't always a reflection of our own shortcomings. I am now committed to being fully present for myself and those I care about, embracing the empowering truth that: I AM ENOUGH.

Kyler PetersonVerified reader review
Verified Reader
"You feel seen and understood."

Brooker's narrative is deeply personal, yet universally relatable. Unlike some self-help books that offer vague platitudes, Brooker provides concrete, actionable advice. He doesn't position himself as a guru who has all the answers but as a fellow traveler on the journey to self-acceptance.

Travis CurnutteVerified reader review
Verified Reader
"In a world that reminds you, day in, day out, that you shouldn't be satisfied with how you were made — Eric shines a light on a beautiful truth."

It's rare that you pick up a book for lessons and insights into professional leadership, only to find that you've gotten so much more. Every story includes a poignant lesson and every lesson can — and should — be applied, both in business and in one's personal life.

Marco VelasquezVerified reader review
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Coming 2027 · The Next Book

The Human Economy.

Relationship Capital in the Age of Disruption.

Drawn from 150+ conversations on the Counsel Culture podcast. Marshall Goldsmith. Patrick Lencioni. Ken Blanchard. Sage Steele. Andy Andrews. The conversations I have been having for years — now in one place. The book about what mentors get wrong, what counselors get right, and the difference your team is currently begging you to notice.

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